Well said I know a woman who wanted to have a baby and talked about it as if it was a pet she would say awww your baby is so cute I want one. After having a baby she realized all the work and responsibility that comes with it and was upset. I personally don’t want anymore kids because I have two one is 10 my other is 3 and it’s hard work. My husband wants another but it’s my body my choice. I had bad postpartum depression in the past too.