This is a good article. It makes me reflect on my grandma and why she continues to want to be near my grandpa even after he divorced her 5 years ago and he won’t even let her have half his pension. It’s so sad to watch her care for someone who doesn’t really care. He was the only man in her life and he had many affairs especially when he was in the military . She now has Alzheimer’s so she’s even more attached to him.